My Reflections

While the world rushes past in a blur of deadlines and expectations, I've learned to pause and look down. In the reflections others step around, I find the real answers.

The hustle and bustle tells us to keep moving, keep grinding, follow the path. But sometimes the clearest view of where we're going shows up in the puddles everyone else ignores.

These are my reflections on building a real life in a world that profits from keeping us too busy to think.

  • The Part We Play

    Theres a meme circulating Facebook and its true, “Healing also means taking an honest look at the role we play in our own suffering”. As adults after a certain point, it becomes less about what the other person did to us and why we allowed it to go on as long as we did. It…

  • Your Love Affair with Mr(s) Wrong

    Ah, we’ve all heard about how some ladies are drawn like a moth to a flame to the “wrong types”, bad boys (or girls if thats what you like), jerks, etc and heard the saying that “women like assholes”. Perhaps we ARE one of these said ladies ourselves, routinely finding ourselves with the wrong people.…

  • Buildabear List

    Any guy (or girl) that you have to build like a project is a timewaster waiting to happen. You cannot change anyone or make them want anything they dont want for themselves. You are not their parent or their keeper. Yes, real love inspires you and can motivate you, but there has to be motivation…