To all the ladies who date men. I’m sure you’ve heard the term “big dick energy”. The definition is fairly open to interpretation but when we think of Big Dick Energy, we think confidence, respect, consideration for our sexual needs, etc. There are tons of articles if you Google it explaining what BDE is, but I am going to share with you the opposite of that. Ladies, watch out for guys with SHRIMP DICK ENERGY.
Imagine your first time with a guy. Yall are getting hot and heavy in bed and you go to pull his pants down and you see, well, what looks like a popcorn shrimp. That would probably be a mood killer, wouldnt it? Some guys, I won’t call them men, emanate this very type of energy, and its just as much of a turnoff as the above scenario. So what exactly is Shrimp Dick Energy?
Basically its seriously under-delivering. Its boorish. Its your needs not being met, and dont hold your breath that they ever will. Guys who collectively refer to women as “hoes”, guys who are comfortable with you doing most of or all of the work in the relationship, guys who are selfish in bed, guys who are lazy, guys who have no plans for self improvement, guys who take more than they give, controlling behavior, behaving more like a 17 year old than a grown ass man—is all SHRIMP DICK ENERGY. Ladies, its time to take out the trash. We can and must demand better for ourselves and from our men. We can do this. Get u a man (or woman, if youre into that) with Big Dick Energy. You’ll be glad you did when youre older.
Yes, apparently you dont need a dick at all to have BDE or SDE according to Google. So this applies to whatever youre into. Whoever you are, whatever you are, remember your worth. You deserve to be treated with respect and love. Its not a pipe dream, you can have it. Just remember, if it smells like shrimp, toss it back into the sea. Theres plenty of BDE fish out there.
Love someone who believes in you,
Miss Reina 💖