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Theres a meme circulating Facebook and its true, “Healing also means taking an honest look at the role we play in our own suffering”. As adults after a certain point, it becomes less about what the other person did to us and why we allowed it to go on as long as we did. It … Read more

Ah, we’ve all heard about how some ladies are drawn like a moth to a flame to the “wrong types”, bad boys (or girls if thats what you like), jerks, etc and heard the saying that “women like assholes”. Perhaps we ARE one of these said ladies ourselves, routinely finding ourselves with the wrong people. … Read more

Any guy (or girl) that you have to build like a project is a timewaster waiting to happen. You cannot change anyone or make them want anything they dont want for themselves. You are not their parent or their keeper. Yes, real love inspires you and can motivate you, but there has to be motivation … Read more

The phrase “self love” has become a common and sometimes misunderstood buzzword today. You mightve heard of it, or heard the phrase “you must love yourself before you can love another” or something along those lines. Here I will explain what self love is, what it isnt, and why its so important to have. If … Read more

To all the ladies who date men. I’m sure you’ve heard the term “big dick energy”. The definition is fairly open to interpretation but when we think of Big Dick Energy, we think confidence, respect, consideration for our sexual needs, etc. There are tons of articles if you Google it explaining what BDE is, but … Read more

I know yall heard that one before. “Take it slow” when it comes to relationships. Its pretty cliche, and like a lot of cliches its damn good advice. But do you know why? Let me explain. Do you know whats lonelier than being single? Being in a relationship with the wrong person. It may sound … Read more

Unconditional love is learning to be the source of love, rather than waiting for others to be the source. Unconditional love means keeping your heart open all the time. To do so, you may need to let go of the expectations you have of other people, of wanting them to be anything other than what … Read more